but I thought the map deployment does that for me? So if I chose "write to database directly" I would still have to manually put the files in my self?

Sure. The map files have nothing to do with your database.
Please just follow the instructions shown after job completion.

I have followed the instructions to the Letter. and it is still happening. There is something missing here. I think the issue is I have been doing "write to database directly" while this sounds nice, it also says "Recommended for servers in Europe." I guess I am supposed to use "Generate SQL file for manual import." which is "Recommended for Non-European servers.". I will do it this way and see if it works.

Step 1: Download the Database Dump (SQL File) file and execute/import it on your server
database.
Q: I have imported it to the main directory of the server since this is all it is asking me to do. Is this correct? If not then this step is worded wrong.

I'm assuming it is supposed to be in the sql folder. If this doesn't work i'll try another way. The instructions is vague on step 1.

OK, I have solved the Problem. Following the Instructions.. lol..
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Perhaps you imported it into the wrong database or into the wrong database, the name of which begins with "lif_"
How would the installation of a user map involves a certain level of knowledge of server administration LIF:YO.