Hello I have been strugeling to add my server to Feudaltools I get the error that my database Ip is a local Ip and I do not kno where or how to fine/ change the ip so I can connect to it fia feudaltools please help .

FeudalTools can't be used with local ip addresses.

how do I find my data base ip ? or how do I change it to not be a local one ?

Impossible to tell without knowing any detail about your setup.
are you trying to run a server from home or why do you have a local IP for the database?

I have a server box at home yes where I am running the server from so I installed mariaDB and used the IP 127.0.0.1
that is the only one that worked on the mySQL if I use the public Ip that my server uses I get the error that could not connect to lif-1 on database public ip

Sorry, home setups are not supported.
There's more info about this in the FAQ: https://kb.feudal.tools/knowledge-base/ ... nager-faq/

But it works. you must configure NAT routing your internet IP to your local ip (should be 192.168.....) the Game ports (e.g. 28000-28002) and the mariadb port (3306).
You can also use dyndns, if your Internet Adress (http://wieistmeineip.de) changes often.