First loads of new map, with new meshes, will always time alot longer while everything caches. If the edits take 3+ hours its either a SUPER slow server, or you broke something in the config, and it will never boot. Check the server log for the error.

Does anyone out there happen to know which database they need to edit in order to raise the inventory weight limit of ALL characters? Otherwise if that's not known/possible, what about increasing the willpower of a specific character remotely via database editing? You can always go into the databas...

With the new updates, any item within the database can technically be added to the tradingpost, and what can, and cant be, can be modified via the server settings.

Technically yes and no.

The "owner' or "developer" can go into the database and set the support points manually for any claim on the server.

However last time I checked, a GM cannot access a monument from a claim in which they are not a part of.